For this specific activity, I went to the Student Recreational Center here on campus and participated is basketball with the guys. You may be thinking “well that is not really a big deal.” When in reality, it is unheard of for a female to want to play basketball with the guys at the rec. When I walked onto the basketball courts, all of the guys stared at me as if I was in the wrong place or lost. I was slightly discriminated against because I was a female wanting to play basketball, which is seen as a male sport. No one wanted to pass the ball to me, and they treated me like I knew absolutely nothing about the game, when in reality I have been playing basketball since I could walk. This is a very minor discrimination, but to me it was a big deal. I have never been looked at the way the guys looked at me that day. I almost felt hopeless, like maybe I was wrong and I could not really play basketball. This relates to the self-fulfilling prophecy we talked about in class. Because these guys had these thoughts about me not being able to play basketball, I started to …show more content…
Without intention, I judge people in my head. I put them into the schemas that I have for them in my head, and I do not even know these people. This is not a part of myself that I like. I wish that I did not do this, but I feel like sometimes it is done without really thinking. One specific situation I want to talk about is when I stereotyped people and believe that some customer were really rude people, but in reality they could have just been having a tough day. I see a lot of customers a day that range from different looks to completely different personalities. One day I worked a long shift and I was getting tired. An older man with scruffy facial hair came up and I could tell that he was not in a good mood. He grunted at me and said, “$10 on pump 7.” He put his money in the tray and walked away. I thought to myself, “That was really rude, you could at least wait for me to get through the process of putting your fuel on. You must just be a really rude person.” Situations like this happen to me often. I believe that because someone is the slightest bit rude or inconsiderate, that that is the kind of person that they always are, but in reality they could just be having a bad day and trying to get home. I noticed myself doing this the other day after the class when we talked about the fundamental attribution error. After this situation, I thought, “he is probably just having a tough day and