Ken Xiang
Professor Matson
English 101
12. November 2013
Directive Process Analysis: Pursuit of Love Interest
For most people, a large part of leading a happy, fulfilling life means finding the right spouse or partner and being able to spend the rest of their lives together. However, doing so is not always as easy as it sounds for men, particularly the part of pursuing potential love interests. Human courtship is probably the most complex mating ritual in the animal world. While there exist no magic formula that work on every type of girls and neither is there one that ensures a meaningful long-term relationship, this following guide represents a potent attempt at directing amorous young men through the grueling process of obtaining first …show more content…
The hairstyle and “facial hair should also fit the guy’s personality.”(Oliver pg1) After all, a guy’s hair says a lot about who he is. If a guy wanted a tough, rugged look, he could opt for shorter hairstyles and variations of the buzz cut. If he was a hipster or punk, having one of the longer hair styles and possibly dying his hair with bright colors would really project who he was. If a guy wanted to go for a more formal and bookish look, then he should try any of the hairstyles that involved parting of his hair. The bottom line is, every guy should find a hairstyle that not only make him look better, but also lets the world know a little bit about what type of person he …show more content…
He can either decide that he likes the girl’s personality and continue the courtship, or decide that he and the girl are not compatible and cordially retreat. If he decided to continue pursuing the girl, then he must observe and see whether the girl was starting to express genuine affection for him. If not, the guy should give the girl some space. Pressing too hard on a first meeting is counterproductive. It is better to employ the ‘chanced meeting’ tactic later, to have another try. If a guy had correctly followed everything in this guide so far and things still did not work out, then he should count his loss and move on. On the upside, even if the girl was not interested in him romantically, he had probably left a sparkling first impression on her. For every guy out there, rejection is an inevitable part of courtship. If it did not work, then try again with a different girl. The most important thing to remember is that there is a girl out there for every guy (unless you are a rolling monstrosity, then no there is
Professor Matson
English 101
12. November 2013
Directive Process Analysis: Pursuit of Love Interest
For most people, a large part of leading a happy, fulfilling life means finding the right spouse or partner and being able to spend the rest of their lives together. However, doing so is not always as easy as it sounds for men, particularly the part of pursuing potential love interests. Human courtship is probably the most complex mating ritual in the animal world. While there exist no magic formula that work on every type of girls and neither is there one that ensures a meaningful long-term relationship, this following guide represents a potent attempt at directing amorous young men through the grueling process of obtaining first …show more content…
The hairstyle and “facial hair should also fit the guy’s personality.”(Oliver pg1) After all, a guy’s hair says a lot about who he is. If a guy wanted a tough, rugged look, he could opt for shorter hairstyles and variations of the buzz cut. If he was a hipster or punk, having one of the longer hair styles and possibly dying his hair with bright colors would really project who he was. If a guy wanted to go for a more formal and bookish look, then he should try any of the hairstyles that involved parting of his hair. The bottom line is, every guy should find a hairstyle that not only make him look better, but also lets the world know a little bit about what type of person he …show more content…
He can either decide that he likes the girl’s personality and continue the courtship, or decide that he and the girl are not compatible and cordially retreat. If he decided to continue pursuing the girl, then he must observe and see whether the girl was starting to express genuine affection for him. If not, the guy should give the girl some space. Pressing too hard on a first meeting is counterproductive. It is better to employ the ‘chanced meeting’ tactic later, to have another try. If a guy had correctly followed everything in this guide so far and things still did not work out, then he should count his loss and move on. On the upside, even if the girl was not interested in him romantically, he had probably left a sparkling first impression on her. For every guy out there, rejection is an inevitable part of courtship. If it did not work, then try again with a different girl. The most important thing to remember is that there is a girl out there for every guy (unless you are a rolling monstrosity, then no there is