Difference Between Having Children And Childbirth

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It can be a matter of seconds to change a perception that an individual has long held constant. I am an opinionated person since the beginning and I need real examples which involve my presence to shift a perception from something to the complete opposite. This essay will narrate my usual perception about having children and childbirth-the way I used to think before and how that perception has changed since time.

I am approaching the age when everybody around me is beginning to get engaged, married or has children. My older cousins and family members are all in the process of tying the knot soon and at times it is rather boring and uninteresting to hear them about their experiences. I usually never took an interest in children as I rather
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First, she and her husband could not get pregnant after two years of marriage, something they had been trying since they got together as both of them are very fond of children. Finally we heard the good news that she was expecting and thing seemed to improve around her for her mental peace as she was on her way to be a mother, something she really wanted. I could never understand the fuss about it. My perception about children was that one especially the mother has to sacrifice a lot for her child which includes killing her dreams, for the time being if not forever. Pregnancy itself is a very hard process. For nine whole months one goes through the thick and thin of physical health and discomfort and childbirth is a very painful process. Due to the nature of these processes, I never was interested in children which included even playing with …show more content…
Even I went to the hospital as she is a very close cousin, almost like a sister. She now recalls being in labor for hours with the pain of it unbearable. A part of me wanted to stick to my feelings for children however getting to know about her condition somehow changed the way I looked at the whole matter before. Why would one sacrifice so much and go through such pain to have a child? Surely the process meant something. Surely having a child is one of the most worth having things in the world. I came to believe in it staunchly within the first year of her boy’s life when he learnt to crawl and walk, when I heard his first utterances and when he began to recognize me, as I spend quite a lot of time at my cousin’s place. The child and the mother are well now, he is about to be two years old and being with the precious toddler is the best feeling in the whole world. I run around him and instantly my mood gets lifted whenever he hops in my lap. It is a joy to be around him as he is super cute, intelligent and sharp about things. I have

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