April 19, 2016
The Relation of Friendship and Virtue In Book VIII of the Nicomachean Ethics, Aristotle says “After what we have said, a discussion of friendship would naturally follow, since it is a virtue or implies virtue, and is besides most necessary with a view to living.” Firstly, Aristotle is saying that friendship is a virtue and secondly, he is saying that friendship is a necessity. A virtue is the state of moral life or behavior that aims at a good end. Friendship therefore, relies on the good and depends on the affections of the persons involved. The perfect friendship is based on goodness and goodness is a virtue, therefore, friendship is a virtue. According to Aristotle, only the friendship of good men is the most high and perfect. Everyone needs to have a good friend that will help you in difficult times. A good friendship can lead to a happy life full of virtues. Aristotle says that there are three kinds of friendship. The first kind is those who love each other and wish each other good. The second kind is those who love each other on the ground of utility and not for their personal qualities. The third kind of friendship is based on the ground of pleasure. The type of friendship that we practice or choose depends on our ethical and moral values. The …show more content…
Therefore, if friendship is goodness, friendship is virtue. There cannot be true friendship without the virtue of goodness. According to Aristotle, only good men understand and offer perfect friendship and because good men are few, true friendship is rare. He states that, “and what is absolutely good is also absolutely pleasant, and these are the most lovable qualities. Therefore it is between good men that both love and friendship are chiefly found and in the highest form,” (Aristotle Ethics, p.