How do we learn to be great parents? Everyone asks this question since no one is born with the parental skills. However, we can learn from Diana Baumrind's Typology and put in practice using the most beneficial style. First, Diana Baumrind's Typology explains the different types of parenting that goes from being involved with the children to not be involved at all. Diana Baumrind is a clinical research focusing on ethics and parenting style. She got a degree from Hunter College in 1948 and her PhD in the University of California, Berkely in 1955. Baumrind joined the UCB where she heads the devlopment Competence project (International Encyclopedia of the Social Sciences, 2008). According to Knox & Schacht, Diana Baumrind noted two dimensions:
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When you discipline a child, you guide and teach the child the mistakes he/she has made. when you punish a chid, you control the situation and start developing guilty feelings in the child. there were two situatio in my life that i was punish and other were i was disclipine. I was 14 years old, when i had my first boyfriend. Even though my mom didnt want me to have a boyfriend, until i was 21 years old. My ex-boyfriend and i ended up ditching from school. We went to City Walk to watch a movie, but the cops caught us walking to in universal studios. The cops end up calling our parent and from there everythign went wrong. My parents responded real mad and my dad started to hit me real hard that my mom had to intervin. This inccident had a negative impact in the relationship with my parents. After what happened they dont trust me anymore and everywhere i used to go i had to called them and let them where i was. For example, i would called them when i was out of school, when i took the bus, when i was going to eat soemthing, and when i would go to field trips. Also, i have to make sure that every class i would go the teacchers needed to sign a pink slip. At the end of the day, the pink slip was sign by the counselor and turn in to my parents. In my other incident where i was disclined, was when iook my LAPD writing test and i didnt pass it. My parents didnt punish me but reinforce the resources available for me to geta better next tme.They talkeed to me expalingi the importance for them to pass the test. I took the test the next time and i almost got a perfect score. I learned from thi situation that there are times where i need to make decision by myself withut having to depend from my parents. The paretnig styling of my parentiing taking decison for me affected me when it caem to stay in school or ditch. Also, i learned a family value that will alwys be
When you discipline a child, you guide and teach the child the mistakes he/she has made. when you punish a chid, you control the situation and start developing guilty feelings in the child. there were two situatio in my life that i was punish and other were i was disclipine. I was 14 years old, when i had my first boyfriend. Even though my mom didnt want me to have a boyfriend, until i was 21 years old. My ex-boyfriend and i ended up ditching from school. We went to City Walk to watch a movie, but the cops caught us walking to in universal studios. The cops end up calling our parent and from there everythign went wrong. My parents responded real mad and my dad started to hit me real hard that my mom had to intervin. This inccident had a negative impact in the relationship with my parents. After what happened they dont trust me anymore and everywhere i used to go i had to called them and let them where i was. For example, i would called them when i was out of school, when i took the bus, when i was going to eat soemthing, and when i would go to field trips. Also, i have to make sure that every class i would go the teacchers needed to sign a pink slip. At the end of the day, the pink slip was sign by the counselor and turn in to my parents. In my other incident where i was disclined, was when iook my LAPD writing test and i didnt pass it. My parents didnt punish me but reinforce the resources available for me to geta better next tme.They talkeed to me expalingi the importance for them to pass the test. I took the test the next time and i almost got a perfect score. I learned from thi situation that there are times where i need to make decision by myself withut having to depend from my parents. The paretnig styling of my parentiing taking decison for me affected me when it caem to stay in school or ditch. Also, i learned a family value that will alwys be