Devor's Non-Binary Identity

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Devor has a point that many, but not all languages present gender as binary and permanent, for example, Spanish has masculine and feminine. So, the thought of there being only two genders has been my view until I met someone who identified has non-binary. Non-binary is a gender identity that is neither male or female. However, Devor illustrates the alternative by many people changing their gender. They feel out of place when they were younger due to their gender roles, stay true to themselves and shape their behaviors based on what they feel is who they truly are. For the most part, I find Devor’s evidence to be very persuasive, he makes a lot of good points that I find true for example “masculinity as generally concerned with egoistic dominance

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