Describe The Relationship Between Amir And Baba's Family

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As I read pages 145-148, I understood that life is only short-lived, it’s not forever therefore, we should use our time wisely while we still got it. During this time, Amir and Baba go to the Taheris’ house for the ‘giving word’ traditional ceremony. Due to Baba’s sickness, the wedding was planned hastily. Baba spent $35,000 purchasing rings, tuxedo, renting banquet…etc. Eventually, the ceremony day had arrived. It was the first time he told her he loves her, also their first night together. Sadly, a month later, Baba dies. Later on, Amir learns about Soraya’s family.
While I read this book, it helps me understand the value of a parent in one’s life. Even though Baba had died a happy death, Amir still felt the grieve. All Amir ever wanted

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