Love could be so intoxicating. It feels so good to be in love and to know that you are loved and appreciated by your partner. When we are under the influence of the emotion of love, we tend to let go and forget things that are really …show more content…
Usually in the world of verbal language, we are always comfortable with our native language. When we learn a secondary language the more we use it, the more effective we become in using it to communicate. If we don’t use it we groan or act out our ideas. The same applies to love, we must learn the emotional languages of love. People speak different love languages. Being sincere is not enough, we must speak the primary language of love our partner understands so that the love we feel will not evaporate. I learned that if we are to speak the effective language of love, affirming words is not enough. Seldom do both partners have the same primary love language. One more, love will thrive only in an atmosphere of compatibilty, agreement, peace, care and commitment. Love can stay alive in any relationship and not evaporate when we avoid negative tendencies and complaining about petty things. Another important lesson educed from the text is the fact that love is deep intimacy betwen two people. It is not just appreciating someone from a distance or loving the other person because of gifts lavished on them. There is a deep level of intimacy involved in a romantic relationship than in a friendship relationship. Friends, relatives and families do not have romantic feelings for each