Growing up my grandmother used to tell me that anyone that comes into my life should treat me like I was a flower, delicately. She was building my first perspective on love while I was only just 8 …show more content…
Love can change everything you’ve ever had an opinion on, and love can warm your heart up to things you may have hated before. In a recent daily health article they did a study that the frontal cortex, vital to judgment, shuts down when we fall in love. MRI scans show this deactivation occurs only when someone is shown a photo of the person they adore, causing them to suspend all criticism or doubt. Loving someone can make it hardest for you to judge other people. Neuro-aesthetics professor, Semir Zeki says: ‘When you look at someone you are passionate about, some areas of the brain become active,’ he says. ‘But a large part is de-activated, the part that plays a role in judgment.’ When you are blinded by your love for someone important to you it makes it harder to see their flaws, and people with flaws similar to them. Correspondingly, Psychologists in Germany that were also studying neurotic people with irritable behaviors, negative thinking, and people that tend to be very anxious are way more stable if and when in a romantic relationship. Many tests got ran on many different people and their neurotic tendencies to see their improving behaviors. Scientist Christine Finn stated: "The positive experiences and emotions gained by having a partner change the personality -- not directly but indirectly.” Christine is saying that without even knowing it, the other significant other’s dark pool of negativeness is getting taken away. The warmth of somebody else giving you their kind vibes will make all the more difference and let people express