Definition Essay On Courtesy

When you think of the word ‘courtesy’ what comes to mind? Is it the act of politeness in one’s attitude and behavior, good manners, respect, chivalry, and generosity? These are all synonyms or the definition of courtesy, but look past what every average human being thinks. Courtesy goes way beyond good manners, respect, and chivalry; it goes into a deeper connection with our peers. It creates a special relation between us and how we all interact with each other. While courtesy is extended all around us, many people show average courtesy, horrendous courtesy, and excellent courtesy.
When you walk into a restaurant, store, or any kind of building, you notice your surroundings. If a lot of people are going in and out of a door at the same time, …show more content…
It has probably happened to all of us at least once. This is a form of horrendous courtesy. Many of times, we all think to ourselves “who raised such a horrible human being” but in reality it means they just don’t want to form that relationship of courtesy from themselves to one another. Another example of discourteous behavior is when people interrupt you while you are talking. No one likes to be interrupted while their talking because of the chance of forgetting what they were saying or just losing the others interest. Again, we associate this with being rude, disrespectful, and discourteous manners.
Lastly and the best part, excellent courtesy. Have you ever walked by someone holding the door open for you and they greet you with “Hello, hope you have an awesome day”? Have you ever gone through the drive thru to find out that the car in front of you paid for your meal? These are both examples of when our peers show the inner connection with us to prove courtesy. Many times we are shocked by this form of courtesy since many of us do not use it as often as we should. Excellent courtesy should not shock us like it does today, it should be a social