Professor Mohsenzadegan
English 1A
12/4/15
Why do you tell people you Love them?
Love is the only word that I cannot understand. I see couples and families say to each other, “I Love You!” It makes me question what their definition of love is because they use the word so often that I feel like love is not as special as it should be. In the dictionary love means that you have a passionate affection for another person, deep affection for a parent, child or friend, or have sexual passion or desire. There are several ways to define love. As I was doing my research on the meaning of love I noticed that the meaning changes in the books and the internet just a little bit but love continues to have a similar meaning. In the end I …show more content…
Obviously a relationship starts when two people decide to date because they like each other for who they are. Relationships are a test to see if the couple can handle any situation they go through and prove to themselves that they will either be together for a short or long time. I found an article where a woman named Lisa Cleary tried to explain what she thought love meant to her. Cleary said, “Love is...having him take me by the shoulders (even in public) after I've uttered something disgusting about another female and telling me: "You know I think you're beautiful, but I don't think you're beautiful when you cut down others in front of me."... realizing that, after almost three years of dating, I'm no longer ashamed of releasing my morning farts… Letting me stick my cold toes under his legs to keep warm, even in the summer.” Cleary obviously is still trying to figure out what love means to her but she loves the little things that she does with her boyfriend. If they know they will last then there will be a time in the relationship where they would decide to spend the rest of their lives with each other and if everything works out then they will decide to get married. Marriage is a huge commitment because it is a lifetime contract between the couple. This lifetime contract is a way of justifying the true love between couples. I know that …show more content…
Our love for God is strong because of all the hope God gives us. We can hope and pray for the best. Fraternal love is the best love their is and everyone should have it because having friends and family that will always love you no matter what is the best feeling in the world. You will never feel alone if you had someone that loves you. Romantic love is great to because everyone will want to have that special person in their life they can get intimate with. Just make you that both you are on the same page and know what you guys want out of your relationship. I have seen friendships get ruined because one partner only wanted to have sex and the other partner wanted a real relationship. Love has several definitions but I would just say that it is a feeling that cannot be described but it can be felt. We will all go through heartbreaks to find that special someone. Without love, we are all