Defensive Listening In Law Class Analysis

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Hi, Callie! I’m glad that taking this class is helping you with with different techniques in dealing with your in laws. I think that most people are guilty of defensive listening. Especially when you are with a certain person or a group of people. “When we listen defensively, we assume others don’t like, trust, or respect us, and we read these motives into whatever they say, no matter how innocent their communication may be” (Wood

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