Deborah Tolman Summary

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Deborah L. Tolman does an excellent job at examining three adolescent girls, each with distinct sexual preferences, discussing their individual experiences in regards to sexuality. Using Rochelle, Megan and Melissa, I will explain the struggles and strategies in regards to belonging and value within society. In the case of Rochelle, an African American, heterosexual, she claimed her sexuality is shaped, silenced, denigrated, and possible in relationships with young men. (Tolman, 101) Being a sophomore puts pressure on adolescent girls, as it stresses the need to be in a relationship, as well as become eager for sexual relationships. (Tolman, 102) There is an abundance of fear in relation to sexual intercourse in a heterosexual society.

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