Deborah Tannen's Observation On Gender In The Classroom

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Just as Deborah Tannen’s observation on gender in the classroom, I too, have noticed that males and females get along better in their own social circles. Although both genders bond better within their own circles, they differ in several ways; and in result, affecting the motives and behaviors of others around them. For example, males bond differently than females in the way that, males tend to bond with one another by making insults towards each other jokingly, whereas; females tend to bond with one another through gossip, and secret keeping; therefore males were obnoxious in play, whereas females seemed to be more conservative and secret. Another difference would be of those who that spoke up during class. For instance, males liked to take

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