Death Is Unexpected

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Death is unexpected. Although I knew my aunt Gail would not live for long, her death still seemed to shock me. In my mind, the day she passed away was unexpected, and strange. To me, it feels as though your brain is pushing back the knowledge that someone you know, may pass away soon. In order for you to concentrate on just spending time with them without feeling as though it has to be done in a certain amount of time; your brain protects you. When the day does come where death appears, and makes its mark, your brain is unable to keep the knowledge about you never being able to see this person again; secretive. Your body takes a toll to this unknown occurrence, and many go through a series of regrets, or wishes. Death does not always make an …show more content…
It is not one specific moment, but a series of last moments. Death is the last breath. Some may be terrified in this moment, yet others are at calm. Whether they are calm or not, their last breath is monumental, for it signifies the end of another life. Death is the last meal. People may believe this is not important, but in order to make the last moments truly special, a meal is one way to do that. One may want to have their last meal to be their favorite food, and they also may want to share it with the people who are important in their life. Death is the last kiss. It may be to one’s significant other, a special friend who has always been by their side, a caring mother, or a stern father. Without hesitation, they will kiss you back; in order for it create a loving moment. Death is the last goodbye. Goodbye does not truly mean goodbye; it simply means, “See you later.” Death is the last memory. The last memory any living person will get to have of you. It is not considered seeing one at their lowest, and weaknest, but it is seeing one living their last moment; with the ones they love and care about. Death is strong. Death has strength like none other. Some may believe a body builder is what holds the most strength, but this assumption is wrong. Death has the strength to endure through every individual; it is just a matter of time. Believe it or not, death happens to each and every one of us. The strength in which death holds is not seen through every …show more content…
Although some believe death is an ending, it is only an ending to an individual’s time on Earth. Whether or not one believes in Heaven, or afterlife of some sort, this is not the only reasoning for death not being an end. Death is a new beginning, not only for the person who has passed, but the people they have left behind on Earth. For individuals suffering through a death, they need to start picking up the pieces of heartbreak, and denial in order to move forward in their lives. Individuals may not want to forget about their lost loved ones, yet they would like to move on with their lives, and attempt to live normally. With living normally again, individuals do not need to completely block out the ones who are no longer with them. People need to simply keep hold of the memories they believe are the most valuable to their life and take them into their new

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