Throughout her life, she had a difficult time creating a bond between her and her non-biological parents because her histories were suppressed and ignored when she moved to America. Her parents created her history. Borshay felt as if she could not be completely honest with her new parents of how she was feeling about the process, despite it rooting her depression, because she felt they would find her being disrespectful for taking her in.
In Helen Zia’s essay “From Nothing, A Consciousness” (2000), her father tried to convey the sense of history with her. Her father provided two sets of narratives to rationalize and justify the placement of how it should fit. Zia was born here. The relationships
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