The cycle of abuse starts out with excuses. They will always explain away the problem. Honeymoon, things seem so great! Then comes the routine, returning to the same old routine. Tension is building, something sets off the abuser then the abuse starts. Leaving the victims with a low self-esteem.
Nine ways you can support a victim going through domestic violence. Number one, reach out to them. A person who is abused may feel scared, ashamed and alone. Talk to the person in private. Say, “I’m worried about you” and “I want to help.” Listen, don’t jump in with advice or assume you know what’s best. Let the person tell their own story. Say, “I believe you” and “You can talk to me.”
Be supportive, there are many reasons why a person may not leave
Nine ways you can support a victim going through domestic violence. Number one, reach out to them. A person who is abused may feel scared, ashamed and alone. Talk to the person in private. Say, “I’m worried about you” and “I want to help.” Listen, don’t jump in with advice or assume you know what’s best. Let the person tell their own story. Say, “I believe you” and “You can talk to me.”
Be supportive, there are many reasons why a person may not leave