Reflective Essay: Moving To A New Culture

Improved Essays
Coming to America and adjusting to a new culture was not easy for me or for many people who move completely to a strange country, especially when there is a language barrier. The reason why it was difficult the cultural thing in America, learning the new language, learn how you can travel from place to place not knowing people around you was very difficult to handle. Especially where I grow up everyone knows each other we all one community. To come from that culture back ground and to see how in America is very hard for us. Eventually we kind of understand and get used to it. When I left my friends and my extended family back in Eritrea in 1997 and moved to the United States. The first year was the hardest time for me, I missed everything that …show more content…
I am the oldest child of eight. My parent were very strict, they will not let us hangout with a wrong people they make sure we all go to church and stay home get everything in need to be done finish it on time. And they are the reason we are here. I went to high school immediately after we arrived in the United States. Even thought it was difficult, after four years I finished. My plan after high school was to continue to get an education, which meant going to college. It was not hard to decide what I wanted to do or what my major would be. I loved math so I want to study anything to do with numbers. When I come to the state, I was strangling with a lot of school work. The only one I was good at was math, I got all A’s. Because I was so good in math class I use to help my teacher with grading other student homework or …show more content…
Just keep working.” They said, “…In this country it’s all about money, think about it. The reason people go to school is to make money, you are already making the money.” I thought about what that person said. I brushed them off. So I continued to talk about something else but the of course the words the person said continued to play in my mind. I heard similar things from someone else also and it did not help me to motive myself to continue with

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    But, I had to move on, no matter how difficult things that I got, or how badly I wanted to give up. In the beginning, living in America was very frustrating due to the different cultures and environments, loneliness and language barriers. I have a hard time to communicate and socialize with my friends and teachers in school. Fortunately, my parents are very supportive and teach me to keep a positive attitude in dealing with adversity, to be open-minded and patient with people surrounding me. I am not afraid of challenges and obstacles anymore; instead I consider them as opportunities for me to attain success.…

    • 1192 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Towards the end of my freshman year of high school my parents had separated for the last time. In addition, my dad had to move to Utah to get his life back together. This had broken my heart. It was hard for me focus in school knowing what was going on in my personal life. That summer was the hardest one I have ever had since I would not see my dad everyday like I was used to.…

    • 1997 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Entering a new foreign environment is a struggle one cannot relate to unless they are put in a similar position. Although I have experienced moving to a different American city and switching schools, but leaving your home country to find suffrage in a new territory is very different. New language, new food, new clothes, different social norms; your life in a way restarts. I have always wondered how my parents (both Ghanaian immigrants) were able to adjust to such different environments; it is not a quick and easy task, it takes work. Immigrants do not blindly absorb new cultural norms, they construct new self-identities as they “negotiate the intersection between their culture of origin and their host culture “(Zajacova 2002), in other words,…

    • 1116 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Writing Reflective Essay

    • 656 Words
    • 3 Pages

    Learning to write When I attended elementary school, part of the curriculum was penmanship. There was a certain segment of instruction dedicated to penmanship rather than writing. We were given large sheets of oat colored paper with three parallel lines widely spaced. The alphabets were used to print and write in cursive using the midpoint, and upper lines for capital letters. The handwriting grades were based on neatness and readability.…

    • 656 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Starting a life in a foreign country is very difficult. But I have learned that the key to succeed is adapting. I had to adapt to a new family, new people, new culture, and a new school.…

    • 124 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Coming to a new country with a new house, new school, new people was rather nerve racking. Settling into school was one of the hardest parts along with learning a new language. I went from being a social person to being shy. A few weeks after…

    • 639 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Finding my way as an American It was during the Iran revolution, when my dad sent me and my brothers to America for education opportunity and to escape all the religious uprisings. The government and people in Iran were overthrowing the shah at the time and were trying to replace the dynasty with an Islamic Republic. My dad wanted me out of there as soon as possible, In order to stay safe and receive a good education. It was so sad to see my home country die out and put so many innocents that supported the shah, in danger.…

    • 1110 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    We had to move, because of my mom’s job. I knew nobody, and had nobody. It was when I started attending junior high when things changed. That was when everything changed for me. Junior high.…

    • 830 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Growing up, I have met a lot of people, had a lot of experiences and memories. Some were enjoyable, fun, and some were stressful, but my favorite memory was coming to America. Moving from Africa to America made me a better person and taught me to understand people better. It gave me opportunities to change my lifestyle, be around others that are different from me, and expand my education. One memory that tops all memories was coming to the United States.…

    • 710 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    After finishing the English 101 course I feel like I have accomplished many of the goals that I was challenged with the beginning of the course, such as critically thinking and reading with text from the textbook “Dialogues” by Gary Goshgarian, substantively replying to my peers to understand their point of views from the text and to get a better understanding of a rhetorical argument. Thinking and reading critically were very important this whole course. Thinking and reading critically were something you would have to do in every assignment that was given. Incorporating it in every assignment has helped us greatly improve week by week and betters our understanding of each topic and the assignments main idea.…

    • 630 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Traveling to America can be difficult, sometimes even dangerous, but many immigrants say the real odyssey is adjusting to the culture shock that comes upon arrival. While adjusting may seem difficult, with the use of these two First, try to put yourself out there; Whether it be stating your opinion, joining a sports team, or even introducing yourself to someone new, every step towards making a oppurtunity gets you one step closer to making a new house a home. Second, accept the fact that things are different here. Yes, it’s weird that Americans refuse to use the metric system and drive on the left side of the road like a normal country, but that’s just part of living here. We can’t make it exactly like home, but we do have rights, rules and…

    • 300 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    There are many things that in the beginning it seems difficult for me to adapt and understand. Until I immerse and embrace the American…

    • 909 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Everyone hates English class is what I thought before taking English 102. However, that may have been the case before I entered Dr. Byrd’s domain, but after finishing the class I have come to the realization that English class can be greatly resourceful. English 102 this year has had its ups and downs, and I must admit the ups outweigh the downs. Meaning, this year, I have learned that I am not a student who wants to read or write, but through reading and writing my mind and skill sets concerning English have grown. During English 102 this year, reading and writing in class helped me expand my writing skills, improved my will to comprehend, and most importantly helped expand my knowledge.…

    • 752 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    When people realize they have to leave everything they have known, loved and cared for twelve thousand miles away from them the impact is so great. Some people think it was easy for me to move from Australia to America, but really it is difficult to forget about. When someone moves from one house to another they don’t usually leave the country where their family, friends and memories are. As for me, in 2011 my family and I traveled to the United States to look for a house to live in. My dad was offered a new job but the catch was that we had to move.…

    • 588 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Reflective Paper on Cultural Competence Introduction To stay in multicultural country like Canada there are different people from different background. Culture also refers to tradition and values of the person, individual culture is influenced by many factors, such as race, gender, religion, ethnicity, socio-economic status, sexual orientation and life experience, culture competence is very important to maintain therapeutic nurse-client relationship. Canadian nurses association believes that cultural competence is the application of knowledge skills, attitudes or personal attributes required by nurse to maximize respectful relationship with diverse population of Clint and co-workers. The nurse is responsible for responding appropriately to the client’s cultural expectation and needs.…

    • 787 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Decent Essays