Everything else in her life seemed to be going well. She was intelligent and had a high-paying job as a computer programmer. She had many close friends and a great family. But despite having all of the outward signs of a happy life, she couldn’t find a man to …show more content…
On the other hand, if you focus on your best qualities and feel confi- dent that you will attract a mate soon, the creative force will manifest that reality.
You have the power to choose your focus. Creation Equation As indicated in Figure 1 on the following page, your core beliefs start the cycle of creation and bring about the experiences you have in life. Your deep beliefs create your thoughts. Your mind is constantly thinking, and you can hear its chatter. This mind-chatter drives your actions (physical and emotional), which result in your creating certain situations in your life. For example, if you have a core belief that you are not lovable, your thoughts (mind-chatter) will be self-deprecating. As a re- sult, you attract men who mistreat you and reinforce your belief that you cannot be loved. You learn to expect more dating misery and begin the cycle over and over again. Ultimately, you feel helpless and stuck. You cannot find a healthy rela- tionship unless you transform your thinking. The only way to break free of the past is to change your core beliefs, which originally created the