He continued that it has made him “very annoyed,” but not angry; he has no feelings of animosity whatsoever. He did not go into detail, but he made it clear that he was “very, very annoyed.” While I wanted to get as many details as possible, I did not want to push him to share a personal experience. Like we had said in class, bringing up race can be awkward, but we don’t want to be so hush hush about it. Now that I am the one facilitating a conversation about race (especially with someone who is racially different from me), I can feel the strain between wanting to know more, and also not wanting to accidentally offend someone. I tried to imagine being the minority and having someone ask me if they could interview me specifically because of my race, but I couldn’t because I am white. I will never know what it feels like to be a minority. I was not sure if he would be fine with it, be mildly annoyed, or if he would feel as if he was a totally different species being looked at through a microscope. Therefore, I wanted to be as cordial and easy going with the interview as
He continued that it has made him “very annoyed,” but not angry; he has no feelings of animosity whatsoever. He did not go into detail, but he made it clear that he was “very, very annoyed.” While I wanted to get as many details as possible, I did not want to push him to share a personal experience. Like we had said in class, bringing up race can be awkward, but we don’t want to be so hush hush about it. Now that I am the one facilitating a conversation about race (especially with someone who is racially different from me), I can feel the strain between wanting to know more, and also not wanting to accidentally offend someone. I tried to imagine being the minority and having someone ask me if they could interview me specifically because of my race, but I couldn’t because I am white. I will never know what it feels like to be a minority. I was not sure if he would be fine with it, be mildly annoyed, or if he would feel as if he was a totally different species being looked at through a microscope. Therefore, I wanted to be as cordial and easy going with the interview as