There is an outbreak of bullying that is being seen in schools today. These children are being taught that it is ok to physically hit or demean their peers. One mini study done of 273 children from diverse backgrounds showed that children who were spanked, presented a higher level of aggression than those who had not been spanked. Additionally, those who had been subject to more violent discipline were the most aggressive overall (Cambridge Core, 1994). Bullying has been a major issue for the past several years. If kids are shown that violence is ok through spanking, they will think it is acceptable to imitate that towards their peers. Showing children that violence is not a solution to problems starts at …show more content…
One individual recalls: the message I got from them when they hit me was not “what you’re doing is bad, don’t do it again”. The message I got was “we don’t love you” (Russell 1996:69). A strong emotional and physical attachment to at least one primary caregiver is very beneficial for the child as stated in the attachment theory. If that child does not receive that attachment, or feel that they are loved, it can have a detrimental outcome with a diminished quality of relationship with the parent. A survey of 679 college freshmen was conducted and the results are as follows: Most respondents (90.7 percent) remembered not controlled discipline, but angry, uncontrolled actions; 67.3 percent now feel no resentment (Graziano, Namaste). It is no doubt that parents need to be really mindful of how they carry out discipline on their children so as to not diminish their relationship with