Controlling Boyfriends

The goal when having a boyfriend is to grow and build a relationship with them. Today girls fail to acknowledge the signs of a bad relationship. They neglect how they’re treated and refuse to break up with them when treated in a poor manner. Girls don’t realize that they deserve better than careless treatment from their boyfriends. Boyfriends wreck their relationships if they’re effortless, control freaks, and by flirting or cheating with other girls. The effortless boyfriend type is lazy and uninterested. They often find it difficult to show their love to others. Effortless boyfriends will rarely plan anything special for their girlfriends. If they do it is most likely something last minute such as staying home and watching a movie. These …show more content…
The controlling boyfriend type is jealous, overprotective, and possessive. Controlling boyfriends love their girlfriends, but can be demanding. They are suspicious and threatened by any boys who look at their girlfriend. If a controlling boyfriend spots a boy starting at his girl, he will be quick to call off the boy. Controlling boyfriends will be sure to do something that shows possession of his girl. This can range from anything to putting his arm around her or kissing her in front of a large crowd of boys. Controlling boyfriends also get leery about their girlfriend’s male friends. The controlling boyfriends assumes his girlfriend’s male friends like his girl. Jealousy over a male friend often shows the possessive side of the controlling boyfriend. He will get angry if his girlfriend is texting or hanging out with one of her male friends. He would then restrict his girlfriend from talking to or spending time with other boys. The controlling boyfriend thinks that he should be the only man in his girl’s life. Girlfriends of these types of boys may feel vulnerable and taken for granted. This is because the he regulates and enforces who his girlfriend talks to and what she does. A girl with a controlling boyfriend may break up with him because she feels as if she has no control over her life. Controlling boyfriends damage their relationships because they’re possessive …show more content…
The flirtatious boyfriend type is charming, a player, and a natural born flirt. Flirtatious boyfriends will flirt with anyone regardless if their girlfriend is there or not. If he sees a girl he may find cute or pretty, he may smile at her and stare at her even if his girlfriend is with him. Flirtatious boyfriends make sure they always look their best when they go out. They always have their hair styled and make sure they look presentable to women. Flirtatious boyfriends have all kinds of methods to get girls to fall for them. These types of boyfriends can talk to a girl and brush against her and tease her. He can also be from a distance and wink at her or just smile. There is a possibility the boyfriend will cheat if he is willing to go further than flirting. Girlfriends get jealous, hurt, and may feel as if they are not enough for their boyfriend. A girlfriend may think that her boyfriend is flirting with others because she is not good enough for him. A girl with a flirtatious boyfriend may break up with him because she feels threatened and upset that he flirts with other women. Flirtatious boyfriends wreck their relationships by dallying with other