Any relationship that involves control is unhealthy and it could do more damage than good. Any relationship that denies a person to be themselves or isolates a person from family or friends, is a form of abuse, and it involves being controlled. Controllers have underlying issues. It could stem from their childhood but what ever the reason, they have no right to be a dictator, it will only cause separation between them and their partner.
If a person refuses to stop their controlling behavior than they're running the risk of losing their relationship. Control causes emotional distress, anger, and bitterness. Victims feel a shamed because they've allowed the control to continue. The control has nothing to do with you, it's a problem that the controller has, they may try to convince you that it's you. Don't fall for it.
The controller may feel as if they're losing control after their mate decides to stand up to them. They may become more irritated and try to use different methods to control their mate. They will use manipulation, threats, and may try to pretend as if change occurred. They may demonstrate change for a short period of time but will go right back to their dysfunctional ways. Don't allow yourself to be victimized. …show more content…
It's unhealthy and can become draining. The controller may not care that their mate dislikes being controlled. They'll continue their behavior as long as there's no consequences. (Natural Health Magazine, 2011). States; "A controlling man may be overprotective – even to the point of unreasonable jealously – keep a tight reign on finances and be constantly telling his partner the right way to do things without ever really listening to their suggestions." Control creates tension in the relationship. The controller may feel that he has more power over his mate if he denies her money, affection, and basic
If a person refuses to stop their controlling behavior than they're running the risk of losing their relationship. Control causes emotional distress, anger, and bitterness. Victims feel a shamed because they've allowed the control to continue. The control has nothing to do with you, it's a problem that the controller has, they may try to convince you that it's you. Don't fall for it.
The controller may feel as if they're losing control after their mate decides to stand up to them. They may become more irritated and try to use different methods to control their mate. They will use manipulation, threats, and may try to pretend as if change occurred. They may demonstrate change for a short period of time but will go right back to their dysfunctional ways. Don't allow yourself to be victimized. …show more content…
It's unhealthy and can become draining. The controller may not care that their mate dislikes being controlled. They'll continue their behavior as long as there's no consequences. (Natural Health Magazine, 2011). States; "A controlling man may be overprotective – even to the point of unreasonable jealously – keep a tight reign on finances and be constantly telling his partner the right way to do things without ever really listening to their suggestions." Control creates tension in the relationship. The controller may feel that he has more power over his mate if he denies her money, affection, and basic