Connie's 'Bonnie In Friend'

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Connie is a typical self-centered teenage girl, that feels as if she is not accepted. With her older sister always receiving the praise, Connie seeks expectance in places she shouldn’t be. She makes some adult like decisions to try to and fit in with her friends, and she uses her looks to gain the attention of some guys. As the plot unfolds we find that Connie doesn’t know what to do when an older man sees her efforts and makes a pass at her. Her curiosity of this man gets her much more than she bargained for. We soon she that this man “Friend” is anything but a friend and uses Connie’s cry for attention to take advantage of

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