Introduction Paper:
When it comes to conflict I feel that it is something that it can be a very annoying part of life. Conflict has the ability to be both good as well as bad in specific situations but I am referring more to the bad side of conflict. I believe that if certain things can be avoided then as human beings we should do our best to live in peace and less stress. Life is unpredictable as it stands but we should monitor the amount of stress we allow and most times create in our lives. My belief is that when stress decreases the natural reaction to such is that happiness increases, leading to a healthier outlook on a person’s life and self so this means we should all strive to solve conflicts as soon as possible instead of dwelling …show more content…
When a conflict arises I am normally the one that approaches it with the thought “okay, you’re trying to cause an issue in the life of one that is not your own. This crap must come to an end immediately.” Here is where I make decision to make the effort to solve that issue or ignore/dismiss the issue as well as the person that has ignited this issue and continue to live my life, free of the concern for that person and issue.
I approach conflicts from the perspective of personality. When I begin to assess the conflict that may arise, I would evaluate the person that I am having the issue with. I tend to look at the person’s character as a whole. If I know that this particular person is one that is notorious for making issues then I would be more inclined to be irritated and therefore be in a more hostile manner towards them that would either result in an escalation of the conflict or the mental casket that the person and conflict be placed …show more content…
I have been told on numerous occasions that I would be giving off the appearance of being uninterested and detached to what the matter that my significant other may feel that needs to be addressed. This is something that I do unintentionally. Most times, even though I genuinely would not have much interest as my significant other may on what is being said, it still is not my intention to seem uncaring to the
When it comes to conflict I feel that it is something that it can be a very annoying part of life. Conflict has the ability to be both good as well as bad in specific situations but I am referring more to the bad side of conflict. I believe that if certain things can be avoided then as human beings we should do our best to live in peace and less stress. Life is unpredictable as it stands but we should monitor the amount of stress we allow and most times create in our lives. My belief is that when stress decreases the natural reaction to such is that happiness increases, leading to a healthier outlook on a person’s life and self so this means we should all strive to solve conflicts as soon as possible instead of dwelling …show more content…
When a conflict arises I am normally the one that approaches it with the thought “okay, you’re trying to cause an issue in the life of one that is not your own. This crap must come to an end immediately.” Here is where I make decision to make the effort to solve that issue or ignore/dismiss the issue as well as the person that has ignited this issue and continue to live my life, free of the concern for that person and issue.
I approach conflicts from the perspective of personality. When I begin to assess the conflict that may arise, I would evaluate the person that I am having the issue with. I tend to look at the person’s character as a whole. If I know that this particular person is one that is notorious for making issues then I would be more inclined to be irritated and therefore be in a more hostile manner towards them that would either result in an escalation of the conflict or the mental casket that the person and conflict be placed …show more content…
I have been told on numerous occasions that I would be giving off the appearance of being uninterested and detached to what the matter that my significant other may feel that needs to be addressed. This is something that I do unintentionally. Most times, even though I genuinely would not have much interest as my significant other may on what is being said, it still is not my intention to seem uncaring to the