Complicating The Coming Out Narrative Analysis

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Adolescence: The first time that I legitimately encountered homosexuality was in the eighth grade when my best friend came out to me as bisexual. Up until that point, the idea of non-heterosexual sexuality had been too distant to comprehend, but when my friend came out to me, it became a concept I could understand personally. The label instantly resided with me. I didn’t need time to consider, I came out to her as bisexual less than a week later, making use of the first sexual label I encountered. In “Complicating the Coming Out Narrative: Becoming Oneself in a Heterosexist and Cissexist World”, the authors discuss the different experiences that LGBT youth have in order to complicate the traditional coming out narrative (Klein et al. 298). She writes, “Developing relationships with people with shared identities was a complex process for youth, both facilitating and complicating their understandings of their gender and sexuality (Klein et al. 310-311).” …show more content…
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Since the question “do you want to be a guy?” was so paralyzing to me, this suggests I was at the point in my life before I had come out to myself, as described in the study (Klein et al. 306). I unconsciously believed that if I simply never indulged the desire to be a man, it would simply go away (Klein et al. 306). However my binding my breast signified, to me at the time, a separation between my gender and the gender assigned to me, but I didn’t know fully what this

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