Comparing Mrs. Dickinson Poem And A Noiseless Patient Spider

So I have decided to read both Mrs. Dickinson poem and Mr. Whitman’s A Noiseless Patient Spider poem. I feel like both are very interesting reads and both individual are geniuses. While reading “I am Nobody. Who Are You?” I honestly had to read it twice and both times I got a different interpretation. In my first read through, I took from it that it was some kind of secret relationship between two people who did not want to have it go public. I waited a few days a gave it a second read and came to the conclusion that it was speaking more being approach or approaching someone famous or how society treats famous people versus regular people.
After reading the second poem I’ve drawn a conclusion that it is about a spider building a web. What