Comparing Everyday Use And My Family

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Everyday Use and my family are different in many ways and similar in some ways. Our families are different in the matter of respect and college. Our families are similar in the way of the strength in our mothers and as well as college. The respect that Dee (Wangero) had with her mother was a childish respect. Dee went to college and thought that she was smarter than her mother and sister, mainly because they did not go to college. So when Dee came back from college, she got out of the car and kissed her mother on her head. After she kissed her mom on her head she started to take pictures on a polaroid camera of a house that looked just like the old house that got burned down. Her mom was shocked because Dee hated the old house and now she

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