Comparing Dominance And Defiance In American's Communication With Jig

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Motivated purely by self-interest the American, displays an attitude of dominance and assertiveness in his communication with Jig. Jig on the other hand is more submissive and passive in her vocalizations of what she wants. Throughout the story he constantly tries to manipulate her into doing what he deems is appropriate and best for the both of them, without realizing that if she actually went through with the abortion to appease him, she would never be free. She will also be in the same situation with the American that she was in before she became pregnant. This can be seen when she comments, "That's all we do, isn't it - look at things and try new drinks?” Their life never changes; they always do the same thing. Jig wants to settle down

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