I agree with you on the fact that there is a contrast between mother and the father's point of view regarding adapting to a new culture. Reading through the text, it is quite evident that the father, Ralph, openly rejects the idea of adapting to the American culture. However, in the case of the mother, she is willing to adapt to the American culture by thinking the American way and joining the country club. But, I believe that the reason for this contrast you mentioned is due to the fact that both of them have had different experiences while blending with the American society. I believe, the father must have had an experience that must have negatively impacted his point of view towards the American culture. A good example to support this is
