While sitting in the back of the Physics classroom on a routine school day working out problems and taking down notes I am suddenly struck with “James, how do you find the resultant force?”. With all eyes turned on me, and my invisibility compromised, this inescapable question is followed by a red face and an uncontrollable sweat. Whenever a question hits me, I wonder if I can survive the next few torturous minutes. After the brief shock, all eyes are looking forward again giving me time to realize I can survive catastrophes like these whether I answer right or wrong. Nevertheless, my anxiety keeps me captive whenever I am put on the spot. Getting home and slumping down into my desk chair is the only place I find relief from the constant bombardment
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I noticed traits opposite to those I display when engaging in dialogue. I heard fluid conversation and determination in arguments between coworkers all trying to make a point, and I realized how valuable it is to clearly convey your ideas in speech. During this epiphany, I sought out an internship to teach me the valuable asset of communication needed in life. Having an appreciation for both math and logic I have had the privilege of learning alongside a CPA as well as attending board of director meetings. This great opportunity has slowly allowed me to come out of my shell and become more open to work on my communication skills. There, I am learning that the art of conversation consists of three essential components; appropriate body language, the words we choose to say, and how these words are said. Classes have become more constructive and lessons are learned with less of the previous worry now that asking questions is thought of as harmless conversation instead of embarrassment causing inquiries. The piercing gaze of a room full of people is no longer bothersome because of the constant exposure at the internship. Becoming embarrassed for asking questions is lessening as an issue due to the millions I ask my
I noticed traits opposite to those I display when engaging in dialogue. I heard fluid conversation and determination in arguments between coworkers all trying to make a point, and I realized how valuable it is to clearly convey your ideas in speech. During this epiphany, I sought out an internship to teach me the valuable asset of communication needed in life. Having an appreciation for both math and logic I have had the privilege of learning alongside a CPA as well as attending board of director meetings. This great opportunity has slowly allowed me to come out of my shell and become more open to work on my communication skills. There, I am learning that the art of conversation consists of three essential components; appropriate body language, the words we choose to say, and how these words are said. Classes have become more constructive and lessons are learned with less of the previous worry now that asking questions is thought of as harmless conversation instead of embarrassment causing inquiries. The piercing gaze of a room full of people is no longer bothersome because of the constant exposure at the internship. Becoming embarrassed for asking questions is lessening as an issue due to the millions I ask my