Cohabitation In Relationships Essay

The months or years prior to and after the honeymoon period of a relationship could determine how the future of that relationship pans out? The reason is due to this dual factors; ‘Character and Attitude’. Taking these into consideration prior to and during cohabitation should be considered a very important step? A spouse’s character embodies all unique traits such as temperament, mentality, aura, and habits etc that are distinctive to each spouse. Attitudes therefore are birthed by the disposition or feelings expressed onwards whether passively or actively towards each other. This calls for greater understanding that as humans we are all unique yet only but one people. Being in love is the greatest of feelings especially where the feeling …show more content…
It may do one well to write down all the failures of the past in order to understand the triggers to those failures? Though, it may appear the faults are entirely on the other party? It is wasteful in efforts to point these out without understanding firstly whether such faults are pointers to your own shortcomings? Let’s review a real life experience below: Cynthia and Terry met at a singles gathering in a bar in south east London. Terry first set eyes upon Cynthia when she almost stumbled by the stairs at the entrance to a bar. Soon afterwards he watched her keenly as she flirted away with his work mate – Dan. Even though Dan showed little interest in her, he however kept her entertained while giggling yet rocking his head sideways to the beats of the soft tunes. Terry approached the pair and soon he cracked on quite well with Cynthia. They chatted like they have known each other for ages and by the time the curtain was called, they exchanged numbers and kept in touch