Coben: Should Parents Spy On Their Kids?

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Should parents spy on their kids? Parents should spy on their kids because it means they care and that they want to protect you. Coben says that parents should not have invaded someone's privacy.Coben believes that you should just talk to your child about computer safety instead of putting a spyware on the computer.People should not put spywares on their child’s computer because it is just better to just warn your child about computer safety and explain to them the consequences.
Some people believe that spyware should be used to monitor their child’s internet activity because not all children are truthful about what they are doing on the internet. They also believe spyware protects children from getting involved with things should not be. For

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