Civility is a concern for those who not only study it but for those who are affected by it. It seems that today more than ever, the definition of civility and expectations have changed over time. From presidential candidates who may not uphold ethical dilemmas to impatient drivers or citizens who have certain expectations of how important their time is compared to others. But what is the real expectation of civility or even incivility in contemporary American society? It is getting more difficult to define what the expectations of civility truly are and how to prepare for where the nation will be in the future. It is very important to study points on the causes of incivility and how that affects our society …show more content…
One solution to establishing the cause of incivility is by considering institutionalized social norms and how they affect our relationships with others. In “Barbarians Running Late,” Stephen Carter, who is a legal and social policy scholar, gives his definition of civility which relies on the importance of sacrifice and selfless efforts. Carter provides an example of a Selfish Passenger that just could not wait to get through security therefore he rushed his way through the line which then caused everyone to go back through security. In his rush, he inconvenienced many more than just himself in his actions by making everyone go back through security. As Carter emphasizes what the Selfish Passenger did he says,”The notion that morality might require him to sacrifice his own interest or desire for the benefit of others, even briefly, probably did not occur to him at all” (Carter, 6). As seen from Carter’s perspective, being prepared for the effects of incivility is something that many of us don’t think too intensely …show more content…
Susan Herbst, a political scientist and writer, in “Civility and Incivility in American Politics,” argues that civility and incivility can be defined in American culture by influenced interactions. She goes on to describe those interactions sometimes as an “Oprah-like culture of therapy-feeling good about our human interactions, or at least not feeling bad-has led us to avoid, or be disturbed by, even minor feelings of discomfort in political discourse, whether televised, on the Web, or in person” (Herbst, 5) results that are therefore affecting what is considered to be the root cause of incivility. The constructive engagement with others through arguments and discussion affect the power and nature of civility. Incivility can be found in different forms and thoughts throughout time changing the causes of