Body language/pg. 108: the ways in which people use their bodies to give messages to one another. I found it quite intriguing to watch the mothers and fathers of the adopted Chinese girls interact with their new daughters for the very first time. For some odd reason, they were speaking English to them, as if the girls could understand the words which their new parents were uttering. Children barely understand language, nevertheless, they would indeed struggle to understand the language of a new culture at such a young age. Looking past this though, I noticed that the parents were using a good deal of body language to communicate with their daughters. They were waving, smiling, hugging, and crying tears of joy when they were presented with their new child. This showed the raw emotion that the parents were feeling at that moment in time and conveyed this strongly to the audience both in the room and us in the classroom, watching the documentary years later. The parents made no real attempt to hide their impression management, as they were very open about how they felt; being finally able to claim their baby girl as their own. In a different portion of the film, the one foster mother of a recently adopted Chinese girl also made no attempt to control her impression management. She was shown crying and speaking very loudly with her body language as she found out she would not be seeing the daughter she had reared since being entered into the orphanage. In fact, the new mother who had just adopted the girl expressed body language too, attempting to comfort the woman with her hands and patting her on the back. Interestingly enough, she turned her back on the woman when she could no longer bear watching her tears. The body language presented in the documentary was quite intense.
Body language/pg. 108: the ways in which people use their bodies to give messages to one another. I found it quite intriguing to watch the mothers and fathers of the adopted Chinese girls interact with their new daughters for the very first time. For some odd reason, they were speaking English to them, as if the girls could understand the words which their new parents were uttering. Children barely understand language, nevertheless, they would indeed struggle to understand the language of a new culture at such a young age. Looking past this though, I noticed that the parents were using a good deal of body language to communicate with their daughters. They were waving, smiling, hugging, and crying tears of joy when they were presented with their new child. This showed the raw emotion that the parents were feeling at that moment in time and conveyed this strongly to the audience both in the room and us in the classroom, watching the documentary years later. The parents made no real attempt to hide their impression management, as they were very open about how they felt; being finally able to claim their baby girl as their own. In a different portion of the film, the one foster mother of a recently adopted Chinese girl also made no attempt to control her impression management. She was shown crying and speaking very loudly with her body language as she found out she would not be seeing the daughter she had reared since being entered into the orphanage. In fact, the new mother who had just adopted the girl expressed body language too, attempting to comfort the woman with her hands and patting her on the back. Interestingly enough, she turned her back on the woman when she could no longer bear watching her tears. The body language presented in the documentary was quite intense.