On September 19th, 2015 I interviewed a mother whose child was diagnosed with autism. For confidentiality purposes, we will call this boy Child N and his mother Parents S. Child N is now twelve years old. He was diagnosed with Autism, not otherwise specified, at the age of four. Their lives have forever been changed by Child N’s birth and diagnosis. The family faces many challenges daily, but wouldn’t change their son and brother for anything.
Diagnosis
Parent S said that she always suspected something wasn’t right with her beautiful baby boy. Her brother had autism, and she knew many of the signs. Looking back now, she can see many instances that pointed to the child’s diagnoses. When Child N was very young he would scream for …show more content…
These children are fighting to survive in a world that doesn’t understand who they are or what their disability means. I want you to remember to be patient and understanding and always listen to what they’re saying. Remember that all they want is to live a normal life like everyone else.”
What have you learned from your son?
Parent S is very optimistic in her situation. Her faith in God has grown stronger and her appreciation for family is deeper. Because of her son’s disability she went back to school at age thirty-four and received a degree in occupational therapy. Her relationship with her husband and children has grown. She has learned was it really important in life. Material things mean nothing, and family means everything. On a lighter note, she has learned to be less germ-a-phobic and more laid back overall.
Conclusion:
Child N was diagnosed with Autism, non-specific, eight years ago. He struggles with daily task and many things that require fine motor skills. The mother feels like she receives appropriate services and has plenty of resources. Even though having an autistic son is challenging, and at times very stressful, she would not trade her son for anything. Overall, the family seems to be dealing with their son’s disability very