To figure out what happened with the person that you are trying to effectively cheer up, you need to ask what’s going on but don’t go straight into it, easy up to the subject because maybe it’s hard on the person to tell other people what’s going on in their life. Go through each step slow and steady without being direct, after you give them a pep talk, a guide in what’s okay or not okay. After you tell the one person what they need to hear, make sure you wasn’t too hard on them, ask if there okay. Just make sure they are really okay without lying and saying their okay, just so they don’t have to talk to you. But sometimes waiting a little while to talk to someone is better than rushing them right into telling you what’s wrong, but also maybe you need to sit back and wait for the person come to come and talk when they are ready. …show more content…
It might not be important to you but asking them about how their feelings are, will show the person you care about them in every single way. You need to figure out if they are sad, upset, stressed, angry or any other feeling. When you found out what they are feeling, try to figure out what they need next. Ask if that person needs anything that will semi make them feel better in any way you can help the person out. After you get the person what they need and they are semi okay, forgot the problem, just leave it alone and get it off your mind for at least