For relationships to work one needs to tell his story while another listens, and then he or she listens to their friend. A guy can’t be afraid to do something wrong or fail. He needs to stand by his decisions. The most frustrating thing about guys is, “When they do not tell you how they feel right away, they either try to hide things or are too embarrassed to tell you” states Sarah Wilcox. Girls want a guy who is not afraid. If a guy is willing to just put his feelings on the line and tell a girl how he feels he will be surprised to find out that more often than not, a girl he likes and has spent a lot of time with might like him as …show more content…
Meaning that a girl runs her personal checklist through her head on how close a guy is to her ideal man. If a guy can be all of the things above, but also do activities like charity, tutoring, or other miscellaneous activities that show one’s compassion and care for others goes a long way. Matilda Brooks told me, “If I see a guy that shows he genuinely cares about people’s well being but also knows how to have a fun time and party, I am more likely going to talk to him than say a smart ass jock.” This further exemplifies that the ideal guy isn’t just a smart athlete, but someone who also cares about others and doesn’t just think about