Overview
Meaningful relationships are meant for those who want well from them. Do not be the kind of person who wants to be in a relationship just for fun and pass time. This will be one way in which you will be hurt so many people who will quit when they find out you do not mean what you say. At long last you will be late still passing time and you will realize that you lost some of the best people who could have made your life worth living. Embrace your relationship since giving it the best you could have whereby you will enjoy your fruits as well. Relationships do not come with instructions however, following secretes below will be of help to you.
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Be a peace maker
You will always be at peace with yourself when you find that there is no place you caused hatred. Do not tell evil of your friends to other people rather speak of the good side you ever saw in them. It will help other people learn from you and will not speak ill of you.
5. Never sacrifice who you are for someone else
Let you be the first priority not suffering for others. In case you find someone is in your life to use you without you gaining from them just let them go or quit them. You will leave happily when you stop suppressing yourself to gain favor from others. Do not carry other peoples cross since a good friend is one who will not use you. Good partners always wish us well not bad.
6. Every relationship can teach you valuable lessons
No relationship will ever leave you without a lesson. All you need is to try and relate the positive lesson left out. There may be pain at the end but the positive in it can outweigh the pain. Avoid revenge of which most people do to the next relationship when hurt in the previous. Learn from the previous and make the next one of the best and meaningful relationships you have ever had.
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In other words you if you do not understand who you are getting to know others better will never happen. It is said that”Knowing others is intelligence while knowing yourself is true wisdom. However, mastering others is strength while mastering yourself is true power”. With that in mind no one will take advantage of your weakness and you will be able to get a meaningful relationship. Knowing yourself well will enable you treat others accordingly when you engage in a relationship
19. Be true
Truth hurts and also sets you free. Telling your partner a lie will act as blackmail in your heart which will prevent you from speaking your heart or feelings. Speaking the truth helps your partner to also learn how to speak what is true making your relationship meaningful and relevant.
20. Do not be selfish
Learn how to be generous whist starts from within. This comes in a way that you will have to at least buy your partner a gift, pay some of the bills without expecting refund, and represent him/her where he cannot afford among other generous actions. Selfish partners do not find the meaning of their relationship and end up