Chapter 3 Summary

Chapter 3 also poses the question of why marriage even exists in our diversely-religious society. One suggestion is that it has become a norm. Culture is learned and values change over time. The societal norms that were in place in the past are not the same as the norms now. A traditional norm that is changing is the roles men and women play in the household. History has told shown us that women were traditionally meant to stay home, manage the household, and bare children. The men were expected to bring food, money, and any other resources that the family may need. Today, we see this norm changing. More women are participating in higher-education programs and universities than before, and the amount of stay-at-home fathers has increased as well. The idea that both …show more content…
nurture. ( Soc, Benokraitis, 65) “People have at least 52 characteristics- such as aggression, leadership traits and cognitive ability- that are partially inherited.” (Soc, Benokraitis, 64) Nature versus nurture can be explained why some kids may have a hard time adjusting to new routine and separate routines with divided parents. Divorced parents uphold separate expectations for the child depending on their individual parenting styles. “Childhood and adolescence are marked by considerable physical, emotional, and cognitive growth.” (soc, Benokraitis, 76) These differences in parenting styles can lead to the child being coddled by the parents in order to gain the child’s affection. This is harmful to the child’s development and integration into society as they age because they will lack the social ability to cope with everyday dilemmas. This may lead the child to give up at the first sign of defeat. Having supportive parents to keep you grounded, humble, and moving forward in the direction of your goals key to a successful adulthood. Having split parents may come at a disadvantage to the