A child is constantly responding to the parenting they are receiving, which should be considered when developing boundaries (Cloud & Townsend, 1998). Disabled children have an increasingly hard time processing the same information as a normal child. For instance, children with autism will attempt to ignore discipline and boundaries by placing their hands over their ears and pretending they are deaf (Dudziak, 1982). In these cases, parents need to develop a special form of boundaries unique to their child. Parents dealing with autistic children would benefit from using the boundary of “balancing freedom, choices, and consequences” (Cloud & Townsend, 1998, p. 63). The boundary helps parents teach their child to make the choice of bad behavior or good behavior based on consequences and given …show more content…
Children with learning disabilities are often faced with obstacles above and beyond academic issues, such as hypoactive or hyperactive levels, impulsivity, and anger (Berman, 1979). When dealing with disabled children who act out of impulsivity parents should understand three key concepts (Cloud & Townsend, 1998). First, children who are reacting out of impulsivity are reacting to an external influence (Cloud & Townsend, 1998). Second, their behavior is oppositional, meaning they are opposing something whether it’s good or bad (Cloud & Townsend, 1998). Finally, their reactive boundaries are not value driven (Cloud & Townsend,