The Pros And Cons Of Casual Sex

Casual sex has become a trend among college students and young adults. Having one-night stands or occasional hook-ups with a ‘friend with benefits’ is just a part of the social culture of this age group. Some young adults have varying perceptions of what constitutes a hookup, a Friends with Benefits relationship, or a booty call, among other types of casual sexual relations. In this article, I will explore the prevalence and young adults’ different views on casual sexual relationships as found in scholarly studies as well as the implications casual sex can have on these students. A survey study by Paul and Hayes asked 187 college students open-ended questions on their perceptions of ‘hookup culture’. A majority of the participants agreed that a hookup involved two people that have never been acquainted (55%). “The factors leading up to a hookup included flirting/attraction (43%), drinking alcohol (32%), hanging out and talking (30%), attending parties (20.5%), dancing (10%), and a friend’s arrangement (5%).” One participant stated, “In most cases the hookup is not ‘planned’. The people may plan to hook up but may not always plan …show more content…
According to a study by Afifi and Faulkner, 51% of university participants had ever engaged in a Friends with Benefits relationship, and 49% reported having engaged in more than one. Bisson and Levine’s survey study found that 60% of university participants had ever engaged in a Friends with Benefits relationship. “The complexity of maintaining a sexual relationship within the context of a friendship appears to be facilitated by following a number of rules (e.g., not telling other friends, not becoming too emotionally involved)”. There exists an understanding in a Friends with Benefits relationship that neither partner may become too attached or discuss emotions, as this could destroy the fluidity of the