And then you have the sketchy, other part of those men. These men just want to get away with more because their judgment shows that if they have a stupid girlfriend, then she will be none the wiser to his nonsense. Generally it contributes to men's protective instinct, flattering their ego because it gives them the convenience of stepping in and coming to the beautiful girl's rescue regularly. Realistically speaking though, are the men that are attracted to stupid girls even men? I would debate that a real man would much rather go for a literate, read, woman he can visualize a bright future with ; A significant other that can test him emotionally, as well as mentally, and can stand her ground by strongly expressing her opinion. The man every girl looks for isn't going to settle for an illiterate pretty face that comes a dime a dozen, but rather a bright light in the …show more content…
I'm not even suggesting her to change her flirting technique. But if some girls that categorize themselves as a “Brittney”,are looking for results, pretending to be something or someone you're not is an effective way to get there. The right guy will like you for who you are, understand your worth, and know that you're not just a pretty face laughing to look cute, but genuinely laughing because you think his joke is funny. In order for someone to love you, you first have to love yourself. Nobody is worth changing yourself for. People will come and go, but yourself, and in certain cases your spouse, will have to live with yourself your whole life, so you might as well make sure the both of you like who you are. Changing yourself for a guy will only end in two different ways. You could come off as fake and uncomfortable, or he starts to love the ‘new you’ because it fits into everything he wants, and you now have to live with the changes you've made and most likely giving up the things you love and everything that makes you, you. Elle Woods in “Legally Blonde“ was the preppy girl in pink that did the ever so popular “bend and snap” and had her fair share of blonde moments, but do viewers see her as just another “dumb blonde” who did everything she could to bring herself down to give her boyfriend an advantage of intelligence or do they see her as the intelligent women who went to law school, succeeded, graduated at the top of her