Breaking up with a friend need both great determination and effort. Many years I’ve struggled with ending toxic friendships and I've learned the hard way. If your friends don't align with your values and goals it won't work out.
About two years I was looking for a friend, someone who I drink wine with and talk about things like being a stay at home.
I was very lonely when I just had my son and I never had anyone around, so it was me and him until daddy came home.
My search ended when I found a group of friends that I thought were a good fit for me.
But turned out that I got exactly what I asked for but not exactly what I needed.
These new friends were the total opposite of me. They were party …show more content…
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Make Intentional Effort To Make New Friends.
When you end a romantic relationship, your friends and family will often urge you to start back dating. The same goes with getting rid of a toxic friend.
Find some new friends, or If you're an introvert like me then invest more time in healthy, existing friendships.
Surround yourself with love and happiness and you'll be less likely to miss your old friend.
Don’t feel guilty about ending a friendship.
Every friendship, no matter how toxic it is, has its good moments so that can make it hard to cut off friendships.
We tend to feel guilty and hold onto our toxic friendships a little longer than we should.
Of course, you have memories of fun times and laughter, but don't romanticize your past.
If you can learn to leave the good times in the past and do the right thing and treat them with respect, you can walk away.
Conclusion
After years of avoiding confrontation and breaking up with friends through text. I've learned how to break up with a toxic friend a better way.
First, start by learning to say no to toxic