Relationships In Romantic Relationships

The Three Ones A significant milestone for the vast majority of human beings in today’s society is to look to share a romantic relationship with someone. Even when a person isn’t looking for a mate, someone shows up and persuades the other person in which they later find themselves in love or simply committed. In many cases, the first couple of months, or even years, can be the best ones. Then for the unfortunate ones, those months or years can be trial runs. Breaking up is hard to do for some people. There are different scenarios, situations and reasons for it. Relationships fail for countless reasons but the methods of ending them have been commonly used depending on who is doing the break up. Narrowing it down to the “Honest Ones”, the “Inflamer Ones” and the “Shy Ones”. An Honest One might be compared with the idiom “just rip the band aid off”. One partner being honest with the other, being straight forward, and leaving no doubt that the relationship is over. The Honest One gets straight to the point and they give closure, they might even lose complete contact with the person. This type of method seems to be for someone who is strong hearted. This individual wastes no time, and wouldn’t carry a relationship longer than necessary. For example, the Honest One can sit their partner down, face to face, and express their …show more content…
The Inflamer can be looked at in a negative or a positive aspect. An Inflamer can simply be one that feels the relationship should end, but they prolong it due to their insecurity and doubts. The Inflamer lacks effort due to loss of interest, which can develop problems causing the opposite partner to react. For example, the partner can feel the Inflamers unfair treatment and distance. Then, they confront the inflamer causing a fight that may force the partner to eventually end the relationship. In conclusion, the Inflamer ends up getting what they wanted without any physical