In this social media driven world , it’s the norm to share every detail of our lives we depend on external validation when , truly , the only person who needs to validate who you are , and you need to be , mindful of who you allow into your inner world . there are three common reasons that hold you back from trusting others. The first one is you have a low propensity to trust our propensity to trust is based on many factors , chief among them being our personality , early childhood role models and experiences , beliefs and values , culture , self awareness and emotional maturity . the combination of these factors and experiences shapes how quickly , and how much trust we extend to others your experiences may have resulted in you viewing trust as something to be earned , not given , so therefore you withhold trust from others until you're absolutely sure they deserve it. Second is you have unrealistic expectations are primary cause for low or broken trust in relationships , and the higher the expectations the more likely it is they won’t be …show more content…
Trust is as vital to healthy relationships as oxygen is to a scuba diver , survival is impossible without it.. . whether it’s naturally to trust having unrealistic expectations or letting our past hurts hold us back from trusting others we have to move beyond these reasons if we want to have trust filled relationships in the future. Trust is the foundation of all human connections from chance encounters to friendship and intimate relationships . it governs all the interactions we have three each other . no one would drive a car or walk down a sidewalk , or board a train or an airplane , if we didn’t “”trust”” that other people took their responsibilities seriously . and would obey whatever rules applied to the endeavor at hand . we trust that other drivers will be sober and alert and that people will generally do their best to discharge their obligations toward us , culture , civilization , and community all depend on such trust. Trust