When you first start out and decide that getting together with your ex is really what you want, it can be an imposing and difficult task. Without a step by step plan firmly in place you can easily lose your footing and fumble through some initial contact. Keep yourself calm and make sure you're prepared. That way you can easily anticipate your next moves and be well-equipped to handle whatever arises - and you might …show more content…
You know that your ex-boyfriend is curious about what's been happening in your life, and he should be. You've been a complete mystery ever since he left the relationship and mysteries beg to be solved - especially in the mind of an ex.
He is desperate for some answers and for the first time since deciding to dump you, he's second-guessing himself in a big way. He's realizing that he may be facing a loss that he never saw coming. Until that thought crosses his mind, reconciliation isn't on the table. Now that he's thinking about it, you're in the perfect position to strike - as long as you do it correctly and apply reason and rationality in your words and actions.
Taking the Plunge
Take a deep breath and get ready to dive back into the pool. You're not going into this blind. You're going to be prepared and ready for action. Attempting to fight a battle blind only gets people hurt - yourself included. Make sure that everything is prepared before-hand. You cannot wing this; it's not something that can be accomplished successfully on the fly. After all of your hard work, risking it all on a spur-of-the-moment decision is just plain