-A blended family therapist will need to help families establish realistic expectations
-Help families create a list of rules
-Communicate the family strengths
-Help families see that changes need to be done in small steps (children will need time to adjust to new rules, and adjust to the inclusion of a stepparent or siblings.
-Demonstrate empathy (help families to show empathy to one another)
- The therapist will need to take a neutral stance to let families express problems openly without fear and