This is a book about Africa and the African diasporic experience in the USA and England, a backdrop for the love story between Ifemelu and Obinze, teenagers attending a Nigerian university who have to leave the country because of the university strikes in Nigeria. I admired the versatility, worldliness, and realism of Americanah. Since reading the book, I try to focus on the human experience and realism, both the good and the bad, including love, alienation, intimacy, self-hate, bias, and low self esteem in both my fiction writing and non-fiction …show more content…
Her essays hinge on the ellipses of what makes us human: our vulnerabilities, our inconsistencies, and our flaws. Like each of us, she is “a mess of contradictions;” hence, her admission, her claim, to being a “bad feminist.” It 's equal parts commentary, memoir, and critical analysis. It 's pretty phenomenal. Roxanne Gay was extremely honest in her writing and that is what I admired most about her. It made me take time to think about my “mess of contradictions.” I took time to assess my flaws, bias, and hypocritical beliefs. I learned to not to be afraid to be open and honest in my