Conflict In Bend It Like Beckham

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Parent vs. Children Conflicts Do you and your parents always see eye to eye with each other? I bet that most of you said no. Parents and their children do not always have the same outlook or impressions as each other. Sometimes the mom wants something for their daughter that the daughter does not want for herself. Other times the daughter wants something that the mom does not want for her daughter. When parents and children bump heads, or have a different perspective of things it causes conflict. Sometimes, these struggles are not so big, but it is still a conflict. A conflict is when things do not go well or together and it causes some type of problem. In, “Bend it Like Beckham” Jules and her mother have many collisions about why Jules is not so girly and is more like a “tomboy” In one of the first scenes, Jules and her mom are shopping for underclothing. Jules mom wants to buy her an inflatable bra so her breasts can look more ample. She shows it to her and Jules disapproves and immediately looks for something else. She looks around the store and finds something that accommodates her taste, the sports bras. She prefers them because it is more comfortable for her. She does not care about looking good or feeling admirable, if she is satisfied that’s all that matters. Jules …show more content…
Jules and her dad were just rehearsing shots when Jules accidentally hits her mom’s flowers, she comes out of the house angry and howls at Jules. She then yells at her father and says, “Allen, when are you going to realize you have a daughter with breasts!”(Bend it like Beckham). This is another clash that happened between Jules and her mom. All Jules was doing is entertaining herself with her dad. Her mom later says, “No boy is going to like a girl with muscles bigger than his!”(Bend it like Beckham). By this time Jules is furious and sprints toward the

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